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Barbie Wischhusen posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 15, 2021
Gaspar My dear friend that I love more than anything in this world. I'm finally going to be able to move. The Independence Center called me. With the help of government aid I'm going to get my voucher. It's been 7 yrs since I signed up on this program. They called yesterday and sending me a packet in the mail today. I wish you were here to share my excitement of finally getting out of Katherine Bates Apts. I'm so thrilled. I want you to know that I will share all exciting news that I receive. I know that you are out there somewhere and you can feel me. I miss you so much. I guess you know Steven died and so did Arnie. Paul and Scott got evicted because they are rule breakers. Gotta get to my doctor appt. Till next time...
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Barbara Wischhusen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 21, 2017
I love you Gaspar Barela with all my heart. You will never be forgotten by me, Never!
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Barbara Wischhusen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 21, 2017
Gaspar Barela, Oh how I miss you. Its been 5 heart wrenching months since I lost you. My life is empty without you in it. I think of you every day. Your sinister sister Jeanie kept me from you in the last 2 days of your life. She stayed & prayed in your room. She wouldn't allow me to visit you. She said she felt uncomfortable being in the same room as her. Fact is she didn't want you to come out of the coma becuz she said that you would be a burden on the family. She was wrong to separate us like that. Jeanie doesn't even know the real reasons I brought you to the hospital on the 10th of April. Reason being that you had fallen just a day prior and your blood pressure was up to 247/130. I had been asking his family for help with Gasper but no one in his family would step up to help their oldest brother. I felt that the hospital would help us get a caregiver to come & help with his meals & oversee his pill taking. I had broken my elbow in January & it had become harder for me to care for Gaspar during my recovery time. Those are the reasons we went to the hospital. He had high blood pressure and a black eye. The hospital had a 3 day rule before a care giving network would help us. So he was kept at the hospital under observation. During his 3day stay, Gaspar went through DTs from his prior drinking just 2days before going to the hospital. The hospital was aware that he was a fall risk. However he fell on the 15th and the 19th of April becuz the hospital neglected him by not strapping him in the bed & by not resetting the alarm after taking him to the restroom. I blame both the hospital & his sister Jeanie for his death.
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Barbara Jeanne W. posted a condolence
Monday, September 4, 2017
Gaspar My Precious Friend. Losing you isn't getting any easier for me. I have at least one uncontrollable emotional breakdown each and every day. I have gotten no closure from losing you. I took you to the hospital on April 10th because your blood pressure was 247/138. I thought you were having a stroke. You had fallen the day before and had a blackened eye. I was worried for your welfare. I wasn't able to get any in house care for you previously plus your family ignored my pleas for help. I thought that the hospital would help us find the help we were seeking. We went to the ER. They performed several tests & decided to admit you for observation that afternoon because of the injury you had obtained one day prior. During the ER examination, the nurse asked a series of questions. One question in particular stands out in my mind everyday since April 10th. That being, the nurse asked Gaspar if at some point he needs to be recessitation, is that something he wanted to occur? Gaspar replied, yes I want to live I want to spend more time with my babe. (Me) After Gaspars first fall in the hospital on the 15th he seemed like he had his composure. Then the 2nd fall in the 19th out him in a coma. His family decided upon themselves without my input (his caregiver) The family decided to pull his life support. That went again st his final wishes just stated 10 days earlier when he was full of life. His sister who supposedly had a durable power of attorney didn't allow me to visit My man Gaspar in his final days. This decision has left me psychologically damaged & emotionally unwell. I did everything in my power to attain another visit. His family disallowed me my co ok right to visit Gaspar on his dying bed after 5.5 months of being his caregiver and companion. I will never get passed the terrible treatment his family induced upon me. I will always love you Gaspar Rumaldo Barela!!!
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Barb posted a condolence
Sunday, August 27, 2017
Gaspar I will always cherish every moment that we shared. You were and always will be my man. I miss you so much. I wish you would come back to me. I love you.
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Barbara J Wischhusen posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 22, 2017
Gaspar, I love you and I will to the day I die. I miss you so much. Your sister Betty has turned into a hypocrite and a liar. She apparently lies to Johns about using drugs. Tina picks her up every Monday to do what hypocrites do. They lie to family members about their drug use. Each day that passes, I wonder if you are still alive. Since the hospital had no record of what became of you once ur sister took you off of life support. I wonder if you are still alive. I want to believe that you are because if your hater sisters who have made my life a living he'll. It wouldn't surprise me one but if they have you locked up in Beanies house. I didn't get to your service becuz someone sabatoged my vehicle. The person flattened my tire and syphoned my fuel. I cried all day long for you that day and every day since. No one wants me around them bcuz of my sadness. I keep tripping & falling. I need help in my bdrm. If you were here I know that you would help me the best u could just to make me happy bcuz u loved me. I want you, I need you & I will always love you with all my heart. Show me a sign so I know that ur ok. You will always have a special place in my heart. We went thru some pretty hard times together. We pulled through. Ur sisters didn't help us at all. I was always there for you and always will. Forever in love with you is where my head is at.
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Barbara Jeanne Wischhusen posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 25, 2017
Gaspar , Not one day passes without Me thinking of You. I miss our daily visits. I miss holding your hand & the hugs & kisses. We had some wonderful times together. I will always love you. If you had just listened to my words & stayed in bed and waited till I came back to see you. I know you would still be alive. You are alive in my heart. I wish that you had fully recovered from ur previous injury b4 U injured yourself this last time. Then maybe your family would've understood the doors that were still closed that were open last year in 2015 when you were full of life. Maybe ur famiy would've realized that I did my best without any help. Maybe then I could've gotten the respect I deserved.
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Barbara Wischhusen posted a condolence
Friday, May 12, 2017
Hi My name is Barb W. I lived across the hall from GASPAR. He was my neighbor, my best friend & I loved him dearly. We had alot of good times together. We saw each other every day. We shopped together, we took walks with my dog together & shared meals together. He was an honest friend. When I was sick, G would bend over backwards to try to make me feel better. Gaspar would buy me flowers, he would bring me candy, medicine or just about anything to make me happy. G did make me happy, so when he was I'll, I would clean his house, I would do his laundry & I prepared his meals & made sure he took his meds everyday. I miss my friend so very much. I keep imagining that this tragedy is just a dream & he will knock on my door to let me know that he was home ,& that I could come by ,& he'd leave the door unlocked for me to come by for a chat or just to watch TV. Unfortunately I wasn't able to tell him goodbye becuz restrictions were in place by his family so I couldn't have any visits with him in case of me bringing him back to life. The family just don't know me. Had they truly got to know me they would know that I loved their brother dearly from my heart. I just hope he knew how much I adored him. GASPAR I will always love you.
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Arloine Barker (Arni) posted a condolence
Friday, April 28, 2017
I live in the same apartment complex that Gaspar last lived in and I knew him well enough to call him friend. We would sit out by the front door and talk, sometimes about serious things, and sometimes about silly things. Gaspar was a good man, a funny man, and often a very deep thinking man. He laughed from his belly, he cared for others with his heart, and loved his God from his soul. I will miss him dearly. Sincerely, Arni Barker (apt.11)
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